Hi, I’m Evie

I am creative, adventurous and kind. I used to believe that I never held back in life. I always strived to give myself the very best opportunities, the best qualifications, the best everything.

The reality is that I held back all the time, I just didn’t realise it. I struggled to have an inner sense of purpose and when it came to my relationships, I allowed them to happen to me instead of being in control of who I was and what I wanted. Moreover, I didn’t think I had the power to change my experience. Until one day, out of the blue, something unexpected happened, heartbreak arrived at my door. Finally, I was ready to lean into myself and find out what had led me to a place of such anguish and how could I turn this around? 

In an effort to get answers to my questions, I studied psychotherapy, a process that would open up a whole new world of understanding about how we experience ourselves, and others. Here, I was able to uncover and unravel the mystery behind why I found myself in continuous cycles, which began with excitement and hope, but ended in disappointment and isolation. As a result, I can now live a purposeful live, where I honour who I am. This allows me to develop meaningful and deeply fulfilling relationships from a place of steadiness.

One of the things I am often asked is “What on earth is going on in my relationship?”

If you are reading this, you may have reached a point in your life where a relationship has taken an unexpected turn. You may be experiencing feelings of abandonment, anguish or frustration and you are searching for answers so you can respond to these changes. Or maybe you are seeking the courage to take a step in a new direction.

It is so disheartening when we give ourselves to someone and we do not get the result we hoped for. When we experience rejection, we tend to go to a place where we become a much smaller version of ourselves. Whether it is putting up defensive walls, questioning everything, doubting ourselves, lowering our expectations or losing confidence in our ability to get what we want from life. Each time we do this, we disconnect from a part of ourselves that we no longer trust.

I want bring you to a place where your relationship aspirations can be fulfilled in a meaningful way, where supportive energy can flourish and you can live a life you love. I have developed a five-step system that works. I help people go from feeling unseen and unloved to developing more meaningful, loving and deeply fulfilling relationships that last. As part of this process I provide the tools and resources that can be operationalised on the pathway to responsive relationships building.